Lately, I’ve been focusing on getting rid of “mental” clutter.
I’ve been experiencing people keeping me around for emotional support. While I know there is nothing wrong with that, what is wrong, is when I AM left in the dark.If I’m not allowed to lean on them for support, why should I let them use me?
I’m the type of person that doesn’t expect anything in return, which it turn usually gets me taken advantage of. Perhaps I’m this way because I had little brothers and I was very selfless when it came to them.
I loved them so much (still do of course) and did anything for them. You see a lot of our behaviors as adults, stem from how were were as children – whether good or bad.
I’ve learned a lot about myself over the last year as to why I act certain ways in the different relationships I have; childhood. While I won’t go deep into myself, maybe think to yourself why you act certain ways in various scenarios.
I think I’ve strayed away from my point here, I usually do. 😉
Point is, if a person, event or anything for that matter isn’t serving you, let it go. At first it will be hard to let go, especially if it’s a person. But I assure you, overtime it gets easier.
Letting go of mental clutter is good for you, trust me. ❤